How to Mix and Match Bedroom Furniture Finishes

I recently got an email from a reader asking, “I’ve always purchased furniture sets, but it doesn’t look like you do. Do you have any tips for mixing different furniture pieces?” Yes, yes I do. You don’t have to outfit a room in the same collection, style, color or finish to bring it together. As a matter of fact, that collected, curated look will help keep you from getting bored or committing you to one style for years to come. It also makes it easier to switch pieces in and out or move furniture around in your home more freely. Here are a few tips I use to mix and match bedroom furniture finishes to give you a more custom space.

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This would probably be surprising to a lot of you. When I started my master bedroom makeover, I knew I wanted to keep my big metal dresser I got from RH a few years ago. It wasn’t my “inspiration piece” for the room, but it was the piece I used to determine the rest of my furniture. On its own, it didn’t really fit the aesthetic I was going for. Had I continued to use the same bronzed metal collection throughout all my furniture, the room would have likely ended up looking like an industrial loft. But, I loved the dresser and knew I would be able to coordinate it with other, brighter pieces that would take me closer to the airy, transitional look I was aiming for. It reads a little darker and greener in photos but the cool thing about this chest is that it is washed with several tones – depending on what it’s next to, it can appear more gunmetal, more bronze, more brass…the perfect reason to easily mix metals. If you have an antique, family heirloom, statement/colorful piece, etc., start with that first and plan your additional pieces around that piece. If you try to throw it in at the last minute, it will likely look out of place, like you’re hanging onto it out of obligation, instead of having it be a thoughtful, intentional part of the room.

How to mix and match bedroom furniture with a metal bedroom dresser

Sources: Chandelier | Tall Basket – (similar)


I love and have both wooden and upholstered beds, but the easy thing about going with something fabric is if you’re thinking, “Is that too much wood?”, or “Does this really go with that?,” an upholstered headboard will totally save the day and take care of that second guessing. Plus, it adds a plush, “this is gonna give you REM sleep and deep dreams” vibe that I’m all about in the bedroom. Having something larger scale in fabric helps break up those hard materials, too – think of a sofa in a living room – same idea. You can find mine HERE.

Mixing and matching bedroom furniture and tying together a neutral master retreat with a gray tufted bed and blush pillow accents

Sources: Chandelier | Bed | Bench | Nightstand | Glass Lamp | Rug | Quilt | Duvet Cover & Shams | Sheets | Fringed Throw | Bird Art I | Bird Art II | Chair (similar)


Bringing in a piece that is composed of multiple materials is an easy way to “cheat the system”. I’ll call this the “anchor piece” because I kind of consider my little sitting area side table to be the piece of furniture that brings the other furniture pieces together and bridges the gap of inconsistencies between the nightstands and dresser. It has a grey-ish acacia wooden top that sits atop a metal base – again, the metal is brushed and lends itself to looking like different colors, depending on what it’s surrounded by. Take the dresser and the side table base on their own, and they’ll look totally different. But together, the look similar in color, without being too matchy-matchy. Having the two-toned/two-material piece was my way to marry the metal and wood seamlessly. Having that one piece now makes bringing in something made entirely of wood so much simpler.


How to tie in your bedroom sitting area furniture with your bedroom furniture


One of the reasons I chose these nightstands (HERE) was specifically because of the hardware. I wanted something lighter and white-washed in the body but the darker, steel hardware made it coordinate with the other pieces in the room. Scroll back up and take a look at the side table and dresser. All three pieces now have some sort of common element and because the base on the side table lends its coloring to both the dresser and the nightstand hardware, it just works. Now, imagine this nightstand with something else- maybe bright brass knobs. Even thought I have other brass elements in the room, even in the lamp on top of this chest, it would have made it stick out like a sore thumb. It wouldn’t share any commonality with the other two pieces in the room. But that’s what’s great about hardware – it’s something you can change easily to make it coordinate with  your other furniture pieces.

White washed night stands that will tie your bedroom furniture together

Sources: Nightstand | Lamp | Jewelry Dish


My oversized mirror was another piece I’ve had for a few years. Even though it isn’t technically furniture, treat it like it is. Now’s not the time to go rogue and bring in something crazy unexpected like you can do more easily with smaller accessories/lighting/textiles. Use it to your advantage to marry all the pieces together or make one of your lacking finishes more prominent. With the antiqued mirror and brushed silver almost all the furniture tones of the room are brought together.

How to mix and match bedroom furniture finishes with the perfect leaning full length mirror

Sources: Garden Stool (similar) | Mirror (similar)

If you’ve been keeping track, that means, in our master bedroom, I have:

  1. A gray upholstered bed
  2. Metal dresser
  3. Acacia Wood/metal side table
  4. White-washed nightstands
  5. And other small pieces like a slate gray bench with wooden feet)

Nothing is the same but by finding commonalities, I was able to coordinate and bridge some pieces together. If you have a piece of furniture that is sentimental or a different style and you can’t figure out how to make it work, look for a piece that has some of its attributes present and work your way through, one by one, kind of like the “six degrees of Kevin Bacon”. Your first and last pieces may have little in common but all the pieces in between will make them work together.

“But, KN- what if I have a red dresser?” 1. I tend to go for neutral tones on larger pieces because it makes it easier to change up. 2. I would suggest seeing how you can coordinate the hardware to other pieces in your room and adding some red linens/pillows. on the bed 😉 If you do have something a little more “out there”, you can totally tie it in with your bedding. Have something with major contrast like a big black hutch? Add a gallery wall of uniform black frames with white mats or a similarly contrasting black throw pillow. If you found some of these tips helpful, here are a few other posts you may like:

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LINENS: White Linen Duvet Cover & Euro Shams| Belgian Flax Linen Linen Quilt (in Flagstone) | King Linen Shams (in Flagstone) | 700 Thread Count Sheets | Black & White Flock Pillows (on sitting room chairs) | Bed Pillows- At Home

FURNITURE: Bed | Nightstands | Dresser- Restoration Hardware (no longer available) | Oversized Chair (no longer available- SIMILAR) | Ottoman (no longer available- SIMILAR) | Side Table in Sitting Nook | Garden Stool (no longer available – SIMILAR) | Bench 

WALLS & WINDOWS: Bird Art Print 1 | Bird Art Print 2 | Moulding | Woven Shades (Bali White; Cordless) | Leaning Floor Mirror- HomeGoods (SIMILAR) | Paint: Simply White by Benjamin Moore

LIGHTING: Chandelier | Bedside Lamps | Floor Lamp | White Sitting Room Lamp

FLOORS: Gray Rug in Sitting Nook (5×7) | Chunky Cream Wool Rug (8×10)| Sheepskin- Costco

ACCESSORIES:  Brass & Mirror Tray on Ottoman | Catch-all China Dish | Leopard Throw- HomeGoods | Oversized Double Handle Basket- HomeGoods (Similar) | Hamper- HomeGoods (Similar) | Inlay Box- HomeGoods | Gray Striped Throw- HomeGoods | Bladeless Fan

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  1. 7.17.18
    Joanna said:

    What an excellent post! I have a set in my master that I still like but wanted to change some pieces. I started with an upholstered bed but then…got stuck. This might just help me move on to getting that mixed but works look.

  2. 11.27.19
    Vivian Black said:

    You made a great point about starting with one piece of furniture that can serve as inspiration for the rest of the room. My cousin is remodeling her bedroom and she is looking to decorate her bedroom with matching sets. We will keep these tips in mind as we search for a professional she can get matching sets from.

  3. 1.10.21
    Karen Huffman said:

    Hey there!! Can I have the link to the chandelier please? It’s only sending me to wayfair but not the actual fixture. Thank you

  4. 4.9.21
    Sheryl B Bourque said:

    I absolutely love all your decorating! You definitely have a gift!

    • 4.10.21

      Sheryl, Thank you for taking the time to stop by. I appreciate your kind note so much!

      • 9.13.21
        Hannah Corfield said:

        Love your style and eye for mixing styles. My dilemma is I have a lovely large wooden framed bed which I can’t afford to let go but I’m tired of the matching wardrobe and dresser. How would I mix other colour palettes of furniture with wood? Can’t remember what wood it is but it’s medium to light in colour? Think white or grey wouldn’t look right?? Thanks

        • 9.15.21

          Hi Hannah, Thank you for taking the time to stop by. I think white and black would both be options, along multi-tonal pieces. You can also mix in lighter or darker wood. You can switch out hardware to bring things together, as well. Good luck in developing a look that you love!

  5. 5.20.21
    Linda said:

    Hi Kelly,
    I love your room and style! I am currently trying to furnish my new house bedroom. I want to stick with transitional/modern and have found a metal chest I love from Anthropologie that I love and want to make a main piece, but I’m kind of stuck with which chest and night stands to use. I would like those to match each other and be different than the metal piece. It is the lotus embossed metal dresser from Anthropologie in silver. Would you please be able to make a suggestion or two. I’m looking at the Basset Ventura, and like both the white wash and the chalk slate, but I’m hoping the chalk slate be more grayish than brown. If you have other brands that would be helpful as well. Please help!! Thank you!!

    • 5.24.21

      Hi Linda, I love the sound of the metal chest. At this time, I don’t have the ability to assist on an individual basis but with a metal chest you should be pretty safe in using any type of wood finish on the pieces you love most. My dresser is a dark metal piece and I did not let that dictate the direction of my other pieces and it works well. If you’re nervous about coordinating, you can always change out the pulls/knobs on your nightstand that would better match the metal chest. Best of luck as you bring it all together!

  6. 6.21.22
    Sally said:

    I have a Century three piece armoire, that we actually love and it serves as a multi purpose storage solution. I want to change the rest of my furniture, but how do I do that. Do I have some of it altered.

    • 6.27.22

      Sally, Thank you for taking the time to visit. I just sent an email to you!